Rivalry twins’ birthday is game day
March 8 will be a time to celebrate for this Tar Heel and Blue Devil, no matter who wins in men’s basketball.

When twins Carolyn Pilcher McAllister ’90 and Jennifer Pilcher Schneier were growing up in Winston-Salem and Clemmons, the Pilcher household was “all Carolina, all the time,” Schneier recalls.
But then Schneier took a tour of Duke University’s campus as a teenager. “That magic happened, and I knew it’s where I belonged. Best choice I ever made.” She became a Blue Devil, majoring in French and international studies, and met husband Steve. (“He got his MBA at Carolina, but we don’t talk about that,” Schneier says.) She went on to earn her law degree and is general counsel at the North ɫɫLeague of Municipalities.
McAllister, on the other hand, was a Tar Heel all the way. “I always knew I wanted to go to Carolina. It’s the only school I applied to.” She majored in journalism, became an occupational therapist and, most recently, office manager for her husband’s dental practice in Hickory, North Carolina. She met husband John at Carolina.
Despite attending rival schools, “we lived together in Paris for a study abroad program,” Schneier says. The twins spent their junior year studying at the Alliance Française.
“That was so much fun,” McAllister adds.
The twin experience
With their shoulder-length blond hair, similar size and facial features — even the same cleft chin — McAllister and Schneier definitely look like identical twins. But “our names don’t rhyme,” Schneier points out.
The sisters were stopped so often by strangers who asked if they were twins that McAllister came up with the cheeky response of pointing to her sister and saying, “Yes, but she’s adopted.”
Later in life, when the twins were living separately, they would sometimes show up at an event dressed in identical outfits, unplanned. But the special connection goes deeper than clothing choices. “Sometimes I call her and say, ‘Are you OK?’ I just had a feeling, and something had happened,” Schneier says. “It’s intuition or something in the ether.”
They only switched identities once in high school, going to each other’s classes in typing and French as a joke. In college, when they needed a student ID to get into sporting events, the host twin would present her ID first then casually pass it back to the visiting twin.
Which brings us to the Big Game.
Rivalry twins
The McAllisters became ticketholders at the Dean E. Smith Center and frequent hosts of the Schneiers for games. “When you enter enemy territory, it’s brave to wear your Duke gear,” Schneier says.
The surrounding Tar Heels take the visitors in stride. “Everyone has good manners,” McAllister says.
In this century, the all-important match-up has coincided with the twins’ birthday four times before, in 2002, 2008, 2009 and 2014. This Saturday will mark the fifth time. They won’t be attending in person but will watch the game together hosted by “whoever has the biggest TV,” McAllister says.
“If it weren’t for the great rivalry, then we wouldn’t have all this fun,” Schneier says. “Here we are, identical twins, going to rival schools, still enjoying the rivalry, and…”
“And we still talk to each other at the end of the day,” McAllister finishes her thought.
No matter who wins, this Tar Heel and Blue Devil will be celebrating a birthday. Which one? Well, let’s just say it coincides with the last two numbers of a year when the Tar Heels won the national championship in men’s basketball.